Friday, June 15, 2012

Nigerian-American


This little blurb from -Michelle Byamugisha absolutely describes my identity...

“‘We are going home,’ I often hear my parents announce before our family of five departs for Nigeria. Yet in this home, the cadence of my “hello” declares me foreign. The grins as I attempt to speak the local language mark me an amateur. My self-scrutiny in conversation distracts from the reality of my selfhood. Fortunately, the otherness drifting on the surface of my presence in Nigeria has never been internalized. I am ultimately a Nigerian-American. I am a niece embracing my uncle’s reminder to visit my motherland without my parents. I am a student that detests the savior mentality printed in the books before me. I am a consumer craving the truth of a beautiful, innovative Africa radiating from my television screen. I am an individual pursuing and resisting diasporic detachment. I am a citizen of America and child of Nigeria.”

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Time Heals ....


Losing the love you have painstakingly treasured is like losing a limb, the phantom pain flourishing in your mind again and again and again even when you recognized that it is a lost cause; more like picking on the scab on your skin, digging underneath only to unearth the wounds, reliving the pain, the sadness, the misery all over again. The healing process, all the art of moving on, is factored into the sands of time. Hopefully, they are right when they said, “time heals all wounds”.